So I don't fit your exact criteria. I've a 2009 FX35 with 110k miles I'm getting ready to sell or trade...but I'm in southwest Michigan. If you expand your search, consider this:
Mocha Java ext/int combo, AWD, premium package, tow hitch and harness, roof rails and cross bars, 20" wheels, tires are about two years old, mechanically very solid with no known issues or outstanding maintenance items. Purchased new from Infiniti of Grand Rapids, always been in the Midwest
I'm only selling as my two kids, and their friends, are outgrowing the FX so I need to get something larger.